By Care Choice Home Care
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26 May, 2021
Memorial Day commemorates all men and women who have died in U.S. military service. It’s the day we remember the heroes who gave everything for the soldiers serving next to them and the people they left at home. On this day, we are reminded of what combat veterans have given to this country, whether it's years of service, the first year of their marriage or their lives. Memorial Day is also a time that we honor the brave men and women who sacrificed their lives in defense of the many freedoms that all Americans enjoy. They fought for those standing at their side and for their loved ones at home. Their loss of life is immeasurable for their family, friends and military brothers and sisters. It is our duty, as Americans, to remember them. Not forgetting means we must keep memories of these Fallen Soldiers alive by sharing our memories with each other and passing those memories on to others. So how do we begin? Care Choice Home Care has the distinct privilege of holding a contract with the Veterans Administration-San Diego. Because of this, we are given the opportunity to provide care for a multitude of veterans from every branch of the military. At times, the stories they share seem straight out of a Hollywood production. But they are all too real. These men and women become a part of our own “family” and when they leave this world, they are deeply missed by each of us. In keeping with Memorial Day tradition, please meet two of our Veteran Family members who are gone but not forgotten: KEN H: When we first met Ken, he was 97 years old and living at home with care from his daughter, his beloved dog and our care team . At the time of his passing, Ken was the Navy’s oldest surviving WWII Pearl Harbor salvage diver at the age of 103. A warm and welcoming man, the stories he shared of his time in the Navy were amazing! Until meeting him, I was unaware of what Navy salvage divers were responsible for. They worked under extremely hazardous conditions, diving in uninsulated canvas suits with 200-pound spun copper helmets and external hoses that pumped compressed air to them below the water. They faced getting snagged and trapped in the wreckage while digging underwater tunnels through the debris, gas embolisms from surfacing too quickly without exhaling, the bends (air bubbles in the bloodstream) from improper decompression and attacks by barracudas and eels. Besides towing away unexploded torpedoes and raising sunken ships and planes, Ken and his fellow Navy Seabees were often given the somber duty of bringing up the long-submerged bodies of sailors trapped underwater when their ships sank during the Japanese attack on Dec. 7, 1941. A humbling, grave task which was a subject he seldom cared to talk about. During his service years, he battled fish attacks, the bends, a back injury and a near-fatal encounter when a ship’s iron anchor chain, which cracked and sprayed shrapnel all around him he escaped with just a small metal shard in one eye and subsequently lost vision in it. He often told the story of that eye injury. WALT: We were first brought in to assist Walt 3 years ago after living for a while in a memory care facility. With his own memory fading, he wanted to be home where his family memories surrounded him. A kind and gentle man, it seemed fitting that he passed on Valentine’s Day at the age of 85. Walt was a Gunnery Sergeant who served 24 years in the Marine Corps. He served in Combat in Vietnam and was awarded the Navy Achievement Medal. For those of us who have not served in Combat nor in any other aspect of the military, it is hard to fully imagine the atrocities these men and women faced while their husbands, wives, children, and friends remained safely here at home. Because of them. Even after such a lengthy career in the military and unthinkable personal loss in recent years, Walt maintained a wry sense of humor and welcomed everyone into his home with open arms. There are no words to describe how honored we were to be a part of his life. There is no end to the number of stories we would love to share. The 93-year-old woman who played on the Army Women’s Basketball Team; the double ace combat pilot; several purple heart recipients, and so many more. On Memorial Day and every day, we should take time to pray for peace, honor the Fallen, encourage their families and keep their memory alive in our hearts.